This is a guid to help children who:are insecure or worry too much; suffer from phobias or nightmaresfind it difficult to concentrate to let go and have funhave suffered a trauma; are worryingly good or seem like little adultsuse order and routine as a way of coping with 'messy' feelingsretreat into dullness as a way of managing their being in the worldand, develop obsessive-compulsive behaviour in order to ward off their too-powerful feelings.