Nearly 4,000 people were killed over the thirty or so years of the Northern Irish Troubles. And the killings were as intimate as they were brutal.Neighbours murdered neighbours. Susan McKay's book explores the difficult legacy of this conflict for families, friends and communities.By interviewing those who loved the missing and the dead, as well as some who narrowly survived, McKay gives a voice to those who are too often overlooked in the political histories.Old enemies are now in government together in Belfast, and the killing has all but stopped, but peace can only endure if the dead can finally be laid to rest.Bear in Mind These Dead is a moving and important contribution to that process.